Many things can cause you to fail. Here is one important cause that can be avoided very easily.
When we write a goal, especially when it seems very big (know that big and small is obviously relative to the power and control over your doubts and fears you have achieved), we hear this little voice that discourages us. Negative thoughts that come up in our minds and give us reason why our goal cannot possibly be attained.
Many advise to shut up the voice, quiet it down or ignore it. I actually would agree with the opposite.
As the philosophy of martial art teaches us, fighting against an adversary actually gives him power. The best way to defeat an opponent is actually to not rebel against but to use his power (pulling him in instead…
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